Candice Casey and Candice are in the street, Casey explains her that this video will only work if she is in a good mood. Canon Powershot from 2011. Twelve years old. Nowadays he shoots on a Sony A7C with the 28-60 kit lens. They both are in a plane. Trip to the beach, just the two of them. Back in the studio. He shows her a sign with what will be the content of the video: Candice+Casey's 10 tips for a successful relationship (with hearts). They both laugh.
1 - you have to spend time alone together.
Views from their vacation time.
2 - laughing.
3 - What is the hardest part: not thinking that all the things that was charming when you met are not still charming.
4 - You have to be patient. They do not seems to be good at that, seven months ago they almost got divorced... but they waited, chilled out a little, and figured it out.
5 - Work (subtips)
5a - making time for yourself
5b - finding each other still funny
5c - work to be able to be patient
5d - it takes work to fin a therapist so you don't get divorced
Casey explains what couple's therapy is: fighting at each other with a referee smarter than the couple. The referee helps to understand what the couple is fighting over.
Candice explains that if you dont want to work, you shouldn't try to be in a relationship! Candice's dad admitted that if he has to do it all over again he wouldn't have married and kids. Casey finds that the work is worth it. It is not for everybody.
Venn diagram: you and your significant other. You have to maintain your own personal life and have a bit that intersect. If it becomes one big messy circle, it is detrimental.
8 - respect each other's pet peeves. Candice: you cannot internalize it when someone doesn't like it when you leave your underwear on the floor / Casey: except for the fact that I don't understand why you load the dishwasher after every single dish.
9 - tip from their therapist. life is short, let the little things go.
10 - If you have a bad day, look at old pictures, it will bring back good memories.
Switch fro current footage of Candice in the sea to old footage of some of their good times at the beach.
11 - Candice has drawn a penis
Kiss, they fall on the ground hitting the table https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cm_uIxcczWM
